My own midlife story didn’t start with “doing everything right.”
It started with being exhausted, overweight, stressed, and coping the only way I knew how — late nights, after-work happy hours, pushing through heavy and painful periods, and ignoring the signs my body was giving me. I was dealing with high blood pressure, high cholesterol, Hashimoto’s, and a level of fatigue that felt impossible to shake.
One day, I just hit a wall.
I remember thinking: “I can’t keep feeling like this.”
So I joined a New Year’s Fitness Challenge… and for the first time in a long time, I stayed committed.
As I trained and stayed consistent, I started noticing something interesting: the men were hitting their goals faster, while most of the women — myself included — were working just as hard but seeing slower, more frustrating progress. It made me wonder: why is this so much harder for women? And why does no one prepare us for this shift in midlife?
That curiosity became a turning point. I realized that women’s hormones, metabolism, and stress response work differently throughout their menstrual cycles and — especially in perimenopause. And once I began aligning my workouts, habits, and recovery with my biology instead of fighting against it, everything started to make sense.
That discovery is what led me to become a Certified Menopause & Women’s Coaching Specialist and Certified Personal Trainer.
Today, my coaching blends science, strength training, hormone literacy, and real midlife experience to help women work with their bodies — not against them — so they can lose weight, reduce symptoms, and feel strong, clear, and confident in this next chapter.

A 60-day personalized roadmap for weight loss, symptom relief, and clarity.
Identify your unique hormone imbalances + symptoms
Understand why weight loss feels harder
Get personalized recommendations for workouts, nutrition, supplementation, sleep, and stress management
Receive a clear 60-day action plan so you know exactly where to start.
Designed for the midlife woman who wants flexibility, structure, and results.
Fitness and lifestyle coaching built for your goals, hormones, and schedule.
Bi-weekly coaching check-ins for accountability, support, and plan adjustments
Clear habit, nutrition, and symptom-focused guidance to improve energy, sleep, and metabolism
Full app access for workouts, form videos, messaging, and progress tracking.
Strength training and group workouts created for the midlife woman.
Custom, hormone-smart workout programming that meets your midlife body’s needs.
Build lean muscle safely with proper form and confidence
Sustainable workouts that boost metabolism and support long-term health.
Training in a non-intimidating environment with women who “get it” and support your goals.
“I’m 60, postmenopausal, and working out 5 days a week—but I still struggled with symptoms that no amount of exercise could fix.
Heather helped me understand exactly what my body needed—through food, movement, and mindset—and for the first time, I’ve seen real relief without needing hormone meds. I feel more balanced, strong, and in control of my health again.”
— Angela, 60 | Chesapeake, VA
“Heather is the real deal. She helped me stop treating fitness and nutrition like a punishment—and start seeing them as tools to support my hormones, mindset, and metabolism.
Her approach goes way beyond workouts. She teaches you how to fuel your body, trust your strength, and believe in your potential again. I’ve never felt more empowered or more in tune with my body.”
— Shanteille, 40s | Virginia Beach, VA
“I’m already through menopause, but Heather’s classes still taught me so much about how my body works—and how to support it now, not just when I had a cycle.
Her energy is contagious, and her personal journey is so inspiring. What I love most is that she breaks down hormone health in a way that actually makes sense. I left every session feeling empowered, informed, and ready to make real changes.”
— Melissa, 50s | Hampton Roads, VA

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